We don’t have much time … we better go slow!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Except for paying attention, what else is continual prayer?
Poet Samuel Green
How often do you let the sense of being rushed prevent you from enjoying the moments you have ... with your friends, with your children, with your beloved? Read More...
The Holy Erotic
Monday, February 22, 2010
I am sitting on the deck at my temporary Santa Barbara writer's retreat. The sun dances on my eyelids and fills my soul with warm light. Read More...
Your Body ... the incarnation of you
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
I have this picture on my screen saver
right now - it speaks of joy, of the
celebration of life, of silliness, of the love of a grandfather for his grandson and of a little boy who adored his "Grand-poop". Read More...
How the Teachings of Sexual Purity Leads to Violence
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
"Tina, I don't know what to do. I'm supposed to be in the honeymoon phase of my marriage ... and we are both sexually miserable." Tears began to flow down her cheeks. Read More...
Ruah ... is now
Sunday, September 20, 2009
I was reading the book Holy Eros by Whitehead and Whitehead the other day and came across the line: "Scholars today - social scientists as well as theologians - suggest that our hunger for contact with the foundational source of significance is part of what it means to be human." Read More...
It's Your Call
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Have you ever had one of those experiences when you are standing in the presence of someone (or a group of some one's) who believe that they know what YOU should think, believe, care about? Read More...
I hope you dance ...
Thursday, August 20, 2009
I stood holding my daugther's hand tears streaming down my face and hers.
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What is the story ... of your life ... of you?
Saturday, August 15, 2009
A day bits and pieces - parts of a story ...
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Saudade
Monday, July 20, 2009
Its evening ... the light is fading ... I feel tired, slow, reflective. I spent the last 24 hours with graduate students and colleagues sharing stories of the human sort and was reminded of a word that has found its resonance in the cords of life over the last year. Saudade. Read More...
In Its Time...
Saturday, June 13, 2009

Stubborn Winters
Thursday, April 2, 2009
I don't usually do winter gracefully - I get tired of being cold, I get tired of the gray, I get tired of the waiting ... and tho spring has always come in her time ... like a doubting Thomas, by late winter I always wonder will she leave us this year in our perpetual frozen Narnia? Read More...
Relative Gratefulness
Monday, March 23, 2009
It's Spring Break and for the university academic that means time to catch your breath, finally get something done or both. This spring break for me, it is both. Read More...
Delight and Attention ... Communion and Prayer
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
"Except for paying attention, what else is continual prayer?"
This is the last line of a poem by Samuel Green that speaks of the acuity of our attention in times of mourning. Read More...
Your Time To Live ...
Tuesday, February 17, 2009

The Body Is the Spirit Thickened
Friday, January 9, 2009
It was a cloudy day and I was riding on a ferry reading Letters to a Young Doctor by Richard Selzer. This is a book written by a surgeon who shares his surprise at how often sacred encounters emerged in his career as a physician. “The body is the spirit thickened.” As I read these words it was as if my whole being resounded “YES!” Read More...
Children learn what they LIVE
Friday, January 2, 2009
Women, Mom's and Oxygen Masks
Friday, November 14, 2008
The Common; The Holy
Monday, September 22, 2008
A week or so ago a friend of mine delivered her first child. A miracle baby hoped in love, conceived in love, nourished in love and now held in love. I thought today how words like sanctified and holy meant set apart for divine purpose … Read More...
The Fire Hose Life ...
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
As someone who is interested in looking at sexuality from a sex-positive point of view, and marrying that component with the idea of personal responsibility, how can we as a society navigate sexuality without it trampling on the rights of others?